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Which
species is more superior; man or woman? If we attempt to discuss
this question, we would probably have to succumb to another
series of never-ending polemic. The women are seeking for
equality, complaining that they were always treated as second-class
citizens. On the other hand, the aura of being challenged
threatens the dominant males. Every aspect is being questioned
as males are usually the preferred group. From law to language,
everything is condemned. Can we consider this as gender discrimination?
Is there such a thing as a superior species?
Lets start from the genesis. As the Christians believe, the
first woman was created from a rib bone of a man. Does this
imply that women are actually a secondary product? Of course
not! Women are designed in the actual image of man (with certain
exceptions , of course!). Women are equipped with much superiority
which were never brought to light. Statistics show that women
are stronger emotionally. A woman experiencing a broken relationship
tends to recuperate from the grief quicker than a man. Women
are filled with emotions to the brim. This explains why women
either cry or jump in ecstasy when they are in exultation.
Men usually keep their emotions unrevealed. Isn't strong emotion
a kind of superiority?
Men are physically stronger (although some women are equally
strong). This characteristic is to enable men to function
as protectors and providers. Caring and sharing seems to be
distinct plus points of women. This does not suggest that
the previous cannot do the latter or vice versa. This simply
suggests a whole, complete function as a duo. Men complement
women and women complement men. Women are designed with breasts
as a structure to enhance their function. The embrace of a
woman displays more love and comfort because of the shape
of their body. A baby is more comfortable in the arms of the
mother because of the function of a woman as the paragon of
love. The same baby feels more secured in the arms of the
father because a man is a pillar of support. These specifications
are fundamental to build a happy family.
Mental development is almost the same between the sexes. Women
showcase a greater mental ability in their early teenage as
their biological development starts faster than men. However,
the brainpower comes to an equilibrium before the age of twenty.
Women were not the first technocrats or inventors because
they were deprived of education. Today, women are equally
good intellectually and have proven their hidden talents in
the arena of education (KMYS will be a very good example).
Most recent research reveal that more and more women are going
for tertiary education as a vital tool to confront the present
world which is overwhelmed with plenty of tribulations. In
fact, the enrolment in universities clearly shows that female
scholars are outnumbering the male students. The question
again is: Is this aspect a yardstick to measure the intelligence
of a gender? There can be more female doctors than males,
but why are neurosurgery and cardiology still the trademark
for male doctors? This is probably because men put their career
as their first priority where else women have to do their
occupation and at the same time be 'domestic engineers'.
In conclusion, men and women are equal in all ways. If we
treat a person as a human being, we are humans. If we treat
an individual as a mere object, then we are dehumanizing.
As the saying goes, east is east and west is west and never
shall they twain. Men and women are unique individuals with
special superiorities. We should learn to appreciate a person
for his charisma and not magnify on his imperfection. The
two genders are like the lock and the key, they can only function
efficiently when both are present. So, affirm a boy (if you
are a girl) or a girl (if you are a boy) to simply show that
we are humans who treat humans as humans.
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So many blessings to count,
But sorrow triumphs once more,
Tears flow when no one knows,
Muffled sobs no one notices,
But relief nowhere in sight.
Sweet,
cheerful on the surface,
Just beneath
empty.
Best
friends left behind,
Heart choked with loneliness,
Clinging; a burden
To the one pillar of support.
Words
of advice uttered,
Comforting
for the moment.
I
used to be somebody,
Everyone knew, everyone turn to,
Now just one in the shadows,
My own fault, true.
Is
this how life will be?
Will time bring more change?
Change for the better?
But
true friendship is formed slowly,
Drop by drop,
'Til the heart runs over.
Another Droplet
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